something I realized today..
Mar. 11th, 2003 07:07 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
transomwhiplassI finally found the truest proof that you can never judge people from what you know about them.
There are girls at my school who have qualities so close to me, morals, interests, problems, etc. There are many people I could probably find something in common with and have a conversation about it with. However, I noticed that I seem to *EXTREMELY* dislike several of these people who share many similar characteristics. Now this could launch in to a whole shpeel about how maybe I have problems and actually hate myself and in turn, reflect that hate into the people that remind me of my own weaknesses.. but that's another story.
What's the point then? Where's the proof? There is someone who basically supports practically everything I can't stand and drives me crazy. Our morals are totally different, we have extremely different problems, experiences, situations, interests. The list goes on and on. The funny thing is that no matter how extreme the differences, I still consider this person one of my best friends. It's not that we just don't have the same interests, its that we probably can't stand participating in the others.
I think that's interesting and amazing how we ever met. I think our relationship was built on what would be considered some fundamentally evil principles i.e. common hates, and gossip. It's interesting, it makes me almost want to reconsider all the opinions about others that I barely know. Like Meredith Spencer, or Erin Higgins... hahah.. almost. Something tells me I'm right about them.
Anyway... I seriously have paper to write. Tomorrow will be 10000000000000000000000000X better than today.
K-nig-hits!!!
There are girls at my school who have qualities so close to me, morals, interests, problems, etc. There are many people I could probably find something in common with and have a conversation about it with. However, I noticed that I seem to *EXTREMELY* dislike several of these people who share many similar characteristics. Now this could launch in to a whole shpeel about how maybe I have problems and actually hate myself and in turn, reflect that hate into the people that remind me of my own weaknesses.. but that's another story.
What's the point then? Where's the proof? There is someone who basically supports practically everything I can't stand and drives me crazy. Our morals are totally different, we have extremely different problems, experiences, situations, interests. The list goes on and on. The funny thing is that no matter how extreme the differences, I still consider this person one of my best friends. It's not that we just don't have the same interests, its that we probably can't stand participating in the others.
I think that's interesting and amazing how we ever met. I think our relationship was built on what would be considered some fundamentally evil principles i.e. common hates, and gossip. It's interesting, it makes me almost want to reconsider all the opinions about others that I barely know. Like Meredith Spencer, or Erin Higgins... hahah.. almost. Something tells me I'm right about them.
Anyway... I seriously have paper to write. Tomorrow will be 10000000000000000000000000X better than today.
K-nig-hits!!!
